Neither, it was already at a high level

I have a lot of respect for obese people who I see in my gym as they are least recognise there's a problem in their lives and putting the effort in to try and correct that despite how difficult that might be.

But for others that don't bother, feel little for them. And in terms of dating, I have a rule: if you can't keep up if we need to run or are light enough to carry I'm leaving your ass!