Cognitive Behavioral Therapy is standard therapy for a lot of people, particularly when they have problems controlling their emotions. Honestly even though the dude sounds like a cuck now, it's a step up from being a literal woman-beater.
I've had some incredibly crazy and infuriating girlfriends in the past, and I never hit them outside of sex, because I had self control. The way society is, women can get away with poor self control and doing crazy shit all the time with 0 consequences, but the moment a man does it, straight to jail. This is a big part of why men are superior to women in many ways. We are held to a higher standard.
He was making a joke that relies on the fact that CBT also stands for cock and ball torture. Also, being a cuck isn't a step up from anything. It's just one more addition to the dude's list of negative qualities.
I don't know what was going through this dude's head when he thought that making this post would be a good idea, but you would have to be on the pipe to seek feminist validation as a self admitted DV offender and expect good results. What's fucked up is that the response he got was actually pretty tame compared to what it could have been. r/AskFeminists is a relatively public facing sub, so they're hiding their real feelings towards this guy for the sake of making their hateful ideology look good even though it's hard to tell from the outside. They would be talking about beheadings and gas chambers if they were being fully honest about how they felt.
The OP even comes close to this realization before backing away:
But what I wonder is what incentive people like me have to get better if it is the case they will be always on the fringes of society and outcast and kept a distance from and sometimes even fully ostracized.
Not ending up on the wrong side of the criminal justice system is a decent incentive to follow the law, but what's he's really asking about is being accepted in feminist circles. Of course he'll never be accepted no matter how much he repents for his high crime against feminism. Even sucking off a troon won't erase his scarlet letter. At the end of the day it's not the assault they hate him for. It's the violation of the pecking order and not knowing his place. No matter what he does they'll never treat him any better than a house nigger.
I'll never understand people who try to get back into feminists' good graces after the feminists make it clear how much they hate them. I get that soy boys think that simping will get them laid, but this guy is already on the outs. The right wouldn't approve of what he did (maybe a few posters here would) but they wouldn't constantly hold this mistake over his head and beat him with it when they need an easy way to assert social status. Look at how many people tell him they would assert "boundaries" that they wouldn't otherwise if they had a relationship with him. Who needs that shit? Who would want to be in a relationship with someone who holds a mistake you made in the past against you in perpetuity?
... let me get this straight, you beat a woman, then got sent on motorbike lessons?
(For context: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Compulsory_Basic_Training )
Cognitive Behavioral Therapy is standard therapy for a lot of people, particularly when they have problems controlling their emotions. Honestly even though the dude sounds like a cuck now, it's a step up from being a literal woman-beater.
I've had some incredibly crazy and infuriating girlfriends in the past, and I never hit them outside of sex, because I had self control. The way society is, women can get away with poor self control and doing crazy shit all the time with 0 consequences, but the moment a man does it, straight to jail. This is a big part of why men are superior to women in many ways. We are held to a higher standard.
He was making a joke that relies on the fact that CBT also stands for cock and ball torture. Also, being a cuck isn't a step up from anything. It's just one more addition to the dude's list of negative qualities.
he is trying to get a date, feminists get off on being slapped around
I don't know what was going through this dude's head when he thought that making this post would be a good idea, but you would have to be on the pipe to seek feminist validation as a self admitted DV offender and expect good results. What's fucked up is that the response he got was actually pretty tame compared to what it could have been. r/AskFeminists is a relatively public facing sub, so they're hiding their real feelings towards this guy for the sake of making their hateful ideology look good even though it's hard to tell from the outside. They would be talking about beheadings and gas chambers if they were being fully honest about how they felt.
The OP even comes close to this realization before backing away:
Not ending up on the wrong side of the criminal justice system is a decent incentive to follow the law, but what's he's really asking about is being accepted in feminist circles. Of course he'll never be accepted no matter how much he repents for his high crime against feminism. Even sucking off a troon won't erase his scarlet letter. At the end of the day it's not the assault they hate him for. It's the violation of the pecking order and not knowing his place. No matter what he does they'll never treat him any better than a house nigger.
I'll never understand people who try to get back into feminists' good graces after the feminists make it clear how much they hate them. I get that soy boys think that simping will get them laid, but this guy is already on the outs. The right wouldn't approve of what he did (maybe a few posters here would) but they wouldn't constantly hold this mistake over his head and beat him with it when they need an easy way to assert social status. Look at how many people tell him they would assert "boundaries" that they wouldn't otherwise if they had a relationship with him. Who needs that shit? Who would want to be in a relationship with someone who holds a mistake you made in the past against you in perpetuity?