“Not looking for anything serious right now” is code for “not looking for anything serious with you ever”. It means she wants attention and will happily take your money, but she doesn’t view you as a suitable long term mate.
Women don’t make up rules and boundaries if they want to be with you. They break rules and boundaries if they want to be with you.
Sadly I didn’t learn this until my early to mid 20s. Before that I thought with time they would change their mind. That only happens in rom-coms. Anything but an enthusiastic yes is a no.
For what is worth I think romance is real and beautiful but takes a lot of work to keep it going.
Your telling me. I’m still working at it. I have the record for meeting the most women who “aren’t looking for anything serious at the moment”
“Not looking for anything serious right now” is code for “not looking for anything serious with you ever”. It means she wants attention and will happily take your money, but she doesn’t view you as a suitable long term mate.
Women don’t make up rules and boundaries if they want to be with you. They break rules and boundaries if they want to be with you.
Sadly I didn’t learn this until my early to mid 20s. Before that I thought with time they would change their mind. That only happens in rom-coms. Anything but an enthusiastic yes is a no.
That surprises me, given we agree more often than not.
It is also very rare. Feminism is going to kill romance entirely