I mean sure I could go with the guy that acts a little queer, is really into beauty products and style but us only interested in a heterosexual relationship as they get targeted too by the 'interventionists'

But I just used that as an example because as ridiculous as it sounds, you can have a guy full on look like a girl but unless THEY themselves after puberty say they are gay, trans whatever you have no right to attempt to pressure them to your own delusions on sex.