A lot of gays hate feminists because the feminists object to their coomer lifestyle. There are plenty of legitimate objections to that lifestyle of course, but naturally the feminist objections are completely and utterly retarded. Somehow they've managed to convince themselves that a lifestyle that doesn't involve or affect women at all somehow harms women, and of course that's the pretext they use to try to control gay men. It's one of those things that proves that feminism is all about control. MGTOW is another prominent example.