If a situation is clear in its meaning, actually triggerable people won't care that you coach the words.

Go into Detroit, find a crowd of black gang members, and yell "Hey N-words!", see if they acknowledge "n-word" as a non-intrusive non-invasive replacement word.

Show someone hanged to death, but photoshop the rope into whacky-taffy. It won't make any difference to someone truly on edge due to the situation.