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I have been called attractive by a random woman exactly one time in my life, not counting things like obvious flattery. I was literally struck dumb by it. I had no idea what to do because I hadn't even considered the possibility it would ever happen. I'm more mentally prepared to encounter an alien species than be complimented. Women can't even begin to fathom what it's like to live that way.
And before an unfunny person accuses me of just being some hideous incel who cannot into woman, I'm married.
Even ugly chicks get complimented daily if they're on dating apps or spend any real time in public.
You married the girl that complimented you, didn't you?
Actually, the compliment came well after I got married. But had it not, I can assure you I would have taken her out to lunch before never hearing from her again.
So the one you married never called you attractive?
Is that odd? Usually we're chasing women trying to convince them to give us the time of day. Any attention we get in return is good enough. Calling us attractive is not a prerequisite.
(and yeah that sounds like being a simp, but I'm talking about normal courtship too)
She wasn't a random woman. Someone you're dating telling you you're cute is expected.