I just stumbled across r/penpal. I don't have anything against the idea of pen pals, but there are minors (or pedos pretending to be minors) posting (archived proof) and this is Faggit we're talking about. Since Spez is running an industrial scale grooming ring I guarantee that this is one of the subs Spez's pet troons use to find grooming victims. It's perfect for them because the whole idea of the sub is meeting on site and taking communication off site. If the pedos of 20 years ago could see how things are today they would risk life and limb to time travel to today.
They also have a sub called r/dirtypenpals. Again, as long as perverts keep their shit private and away from minors, whatever. But thanks to the company that Spez keeps, this is grooming central. There are a lot of posters claiming to be female in that sub (NSFL archived proof). Faggit being Faggit I guarantee that these "women" are fat troons tricking horny dudes into participating in their sick fantasies. The sad thing for the dudes falling for this is that there are real college aged women willing to engage in this activity, and they're into some really fucked up shit. They're just not on Faggit.
There is nothing that makes you lose the air of mystique for women more than women revealing their true desires. Makes it obvious why they hide everything behind layers of deceit and duplicity. The most normal of them are still filled with desires of being humiliated, defiled, or twisted.
But the moment that curtain is pulled back, you can't see them as pure or innocent again. And then you start to see the signs in all of them. Which leaves the hard option of swallowing your disgust to try and make family with one, or joining them in degenerate hedonism.