The thing is, you only have so much you can do. The sheer level of social pressure to troon out, or just be gay at minimum, is so high right now that short of putting them in isolation there is always a risk.

Our parents, and those of generations before, never managed to stop us from adopting identities like nerds, or punks, or goths, or the dozens of others they desperately tried to stop. Unfortunately tranny has become that cheap to these kids.

Because that's the issue. We see it as the massive problem it is, but they see it as something as minor as someone used to treat playing DnD. And unlike DnD, they now have celebrities and politicians celebrating them for it too.