Yeah I get it. Definitely not one of those types that say adults should never enjoy childish stuff, in fact I'd go with the opposite in that it's better to have enough confidence to not worry about proving you're an adult at every chance.

Still think obsessions are unhealthy, not from the standpoint of a high horse, but a been there done that try to not repeat mistakes mindset. I wouldn't call escapism the same as obsession though. Really a lot of the obsessive traits I see on the crazy leftist nuts where _____thing is an critical part of their existence and their whole life revolves around it.

Or in the end maybe it's all as simple as I have a severe aversion to pink, purple, glittery shit, etc. Because that would definitely be true