Such behavior is damaging for both men and women, but women especially. Their sex is a guarded commodity, and giving it away during peak fertility (and attractiveness) is a recipe for failure. Women at 23 should be locking down a high value man and starting a family who will love and cherish them in old age. Fucking everything that moves until your 35, accidentally popping out 1-3 mystery meat kids, and then desperately swinging for beta bucks at the 11th hour? That’s not the play for happiness.
Such behavior is damaging for both men and women, but women especially. Their sex is a guarded commodity, and giving it away during peak fertility (and attractiveness) is a recipe for failure. Women at 23 should be locking down a high value man and starting a family who will love and cherish them in old age. Fucking everything that moves until your 35, accidentally popping out 1-3 mystery meat kids, and then desperately swinging for beta bucks at the 11th hour? That’s not the play for happiness.
Gone are the days when people fell for such a con. "you get my best years!" - and you get half my wages until I die, who really wins?