Hating women for acting naturally is like hating raccoons for digging in your trash. It isn't worth the effort, just know whats up and accept your reality.

I get being mad that our fathers, male older relatives and other male role models failed to teach us how things work. But you also have to understand that the entirety of western culture is set up to destroy them if they were heard saying "the emperor has no clothes".

The reality of male disposability is quite soul crushing. It is nearly impossible to accept and internalize if a man has any hope or optimism left.