The insidious kind of evil that disguises itself as good.

I very much doubt she'd characterise her own behaviour as "hateful", she probably thinks she's trying to make her son "better", even if she manages to drive them to make dramatic changes at a young age to please her - even if she manages to drive him to end it all when he realises that he will never please the bigot I suspect her to be.

She'll be sad, she'll be heartbroken, and she'll say that poor Bennett was unable to overcome his male heritage as she looks for the next life she can, in the name of virtue, leach of all meaning and hope of happiness.