Pointing out that birth control is self funded, the low levels of and societal of shaming single motherhood and that the JAPANESE in general make 10-20 grand less than the average American and how Japanese men are jellyfish isn't "about how poor Japanese women are and how much single mothers suffer", it's factually accurate assessment of the situation and mostly the opposite of what occurs in the west. If you don't have strong men to LEAD then you'll get rampant hypergamy, entitlement and general bad behavior because no one has the spine to say 'no' or at the very least 'think about your life, are you making wise decisions?' that's all it usually takes since women want pushback, limits and strong leadership but go full anarchy when they don't get it due to how their brains functioning differently than men......Though there's not much that can be done about hypergamy unless you can edit the gene or genes that create it out or bring back punishment and consequences for poor decisions for women that have been legislated or stigmatized out of existence.