The first step is actually being treated well enough to be given a chance.
Same empty shit I've heard countless times, I DO love myself, it's everyone else that's the problem.
Personality is so key to attraction that you will actually see some pretty out of shape dudes with doting, loving wives
I can't get my foot in the door without looks or money and to get enough money to interest a woman requires nepotism(or networking as some call it).
but actually GOOD men who will truly cherish them are far harder to find.
Because they refuse to ever give us a chance until they're old, used up and desperate and by that point we're only interested in her as a means of reproduction. She isn't capable of love at that point anyway and will constantly be lusting after the men from her past.
What do you even mean? What love am I meant to seek? It sounded like you simply referred to love of labor itself.
Okay, so you're just insane. Do you think children driven to suicide working in sweatshops just lacked love in their heart and if they were just more "loving" they'd enjoy living empty lives consisting of nothing but work?
Dude, "key developmental milestones" are not actually key to anything.
Bullshit, I have no connections, I have no ability to operate in the world and even if I ever could get a woman I'm forced to settle for the leftovers that either wouldn't settle or that nobody wanted, usually a combination of both.
In fact, if you've missed basically ALL of them, as I have, you'll actually have the chance to develop a unique personality which can be very attractive, but you'll need to get over pitying yourself first.
Personality is irrelevant to attraction, without looks life is basically over from the start. A tall child molester with a good face would have an infinitely easier time finding a loving wife than an average man. Female liberation was an act of terrorism and treason.
All everyone else seems to bring up as things that are actually possible is just a lifetime of unfulfilling labor meanwhile it seems like everyone else has lives with more than that.
And what? live life without ever having experienced key developmental milestones and I should live a meaningless life of a slave? I don't want to live just to work, I want to have a life outside of endless labor.
Not going to change anything about how fucked society is and how hopeless things are. All I ever wanted was a virgin wife to experience young teen love with and I'm forever denied the ability to experience that meanwhile they're all slutting around before they're even legal.
And how exactly is that meant to help with anything? I already have plenty of old people I interact with regularly, what I have no knowledge of is what the youth experience is like or how to achieve it. Currently my life has just been drifting along as the years pass while I remain jealous of my parent's and grandparent's social lives.
Just wanted to hit this specific point... I'd suggest that you might instead look for someone your own age who is in an equally difficult situation, because you will actually be capable of relating to them
No such thing, women have effectively unlimited options as long as they aren't fat and are reasonably youthful(and even then there is no shortage of desperate men willing to settle for anything so the competition is still steep). People like you really don't understand the dynamics at play in a sexually "liberated" society
Give me examples of these "concrete steps", I'm sure that they all start from a point of assuming far more success than I've ever been able to achieve in life.
I've been trying and repeatedly getting knocked down for nearly 40 years now, but I've never given up, and through it all I've grown significantly.
That's just the difference. "getting knocked down" implies you were able to achieve a level of success to begin with, whereas I've never even had the sort of opportunities that everyone else takes for granted.
If you want an idea for what can help, for myself I've been caring for an elderly friend of my mother's for the past year. This has been helping me build social skills which I missed as a child, especially in regards to how to interact with women properly.
That won't do anything to get me a woman, social skills aren't my problem, lack of opportunity and inability to get my foot in the door are the main thing holding me back and it seems like nobody outside of dedicated incel forums can even understand what that's like.
After decades of constant failure in everything I try it really seems pointless to keep trying. My youth is passing me by, most of it's already gone and I have nothing to show for it because I was never given the opportunities I need and everyone else blames me for not somehow "creating" opportunities.
Everyone wants Ikea shit that's gonna fall apart in ten years because they don't have to do anything crazy like leave their houses to acquire it.
Well that and the lack of space and difficulty of moving. What makes you think they'll even be living in the same place in ten years for it to matter? Heavy furniture is for those with the luxury of feeling stable in their housing situation, but demographic change, unstable job markets and many people renting rather than owning the benefits of having something small and easy to move outweigh the benefits of having something well built and nice looking.
Half my house is furnished for free out of things that cost someone $1500 30 years ago but is now worth nothing.
And how long do you think you could realistically end up staying in that house? Probably a fair while if not your whole life right? You weren't considering the possibility of having to move in the next couple years when you bought them were you?
Movements don't really matter, at most there will be some ineffectual law passed to placate the masses but without any actual effect.
I've given up on a good future, even beyond the economic aspect the demographic and societal aspects makes it effectively impossible.
Even as someone who is and has always been very forward looking and averse to hedonistic living I'm at the point where my genuine advice is just try to enjoy life while you can, don't bother chasing prosperity that will never come and just try to scrape by on as little effort as possible and use the remaining time to enjoy life in whatever way you can.
Honestly living like a degenerate is more likely to get yourself somewhere in life than trying to get ahead in life on hard work alone. Connections are the most important thing you can have and I missed out on being able to make any due to my frugal and sheltered life.
If he wants to fight then he needs to actually fight not work towards a better future, because there is no better future, only hedonism now and die struggling later or struggle now and die struggling later or fight now and get death within the hour.
It sounds defeatist but that's because we effectively are defeated
Everyone would be the head up a multitrillion dollar company obviously and goods and services would simply materialize as needed.
Young people just don't care anymore
Young white men have less reason to care about anything than a deathrow inmate in prison. At least the latter has hope of a reduced sentence, whereas the path we're on is certain. We have no future. At this point I just want things to burn and blood to flow, at least then it would be a change of pace.
spend your money on keeping it running instead of monthly payments
and then while your car is being worked on you can spend as much as you make just paying for transit so you can keep your job. There is no winning.
Work at a job that makes more money or better yet your own business on the side
Only two points in and we're already at "pull yourself up by your bootstraps and just make more money"
What you just described is the reason I view democracies to be the crueler system to live under than dictatorship.
Wait until it comes time for him to enter the job market or move out.
Well when everything is locked down with DRM and everything has to meet strict regulations to be street legal manufacturers can essentially decide to make a line of cars unserviceable.
What then happens is the manufacturers put security in the way to make sure only their approved devices can even do that.
Which is the core reason people complain about electronics. I don't really care how simple something is if it's locked down
Nothing I have said relates to me being the problem