There are lots of states where 16 or 17 is completely legal. Romeo and Juliet laws are more for situations like a high school senior dating a freshman.

I remember for years the media would trot out articles about some study that showed something like 5% of male bottoms became incontinent over time whenever they wanted gay rage bait. They'd have all these other doctors who'd tell us how flawed the studies were, but they were mostly just hysterical raging with almost no complaints.

Oddly enough, more and more women are becoming incontinent as anal sex becomes more common.