I don't know if I'd say they hate weakness/disorder as much as they need and are craving order.

Everybody needs order. When you grow up you push the boundaries, step over the line a little, and that's how you know where the line is. Then you have confidence because you know where it's safe to stand.

The whole troon thing is the culmination of them trying ever more crazy things to find that line, but they never do because their single mother and teachers keep moving it further out. When they had a tantrum because they couldn't have pizza every night they got pizza every night. Then they tantrum because they're having pizza and they wanted McDonald's. Eventually they escalate to troons demanding pronouns.

Maybe you've seen the trending troon meltdown. This is an adult temper tantrum. A person desperately acting out to find the line of acceptable behavior, instead stepping over the line of legal behavior.