I met a fellow who'd spend 6 months in an Arabic country (Saudi Arabia iirc) and earn 4x the money he'd get here in Canada. Then he had a 6 month vacation! He'd done this for several years, his boyfriend was fine with it.
He was a nurse.
He said one day after 3-4 years there, the top hospital director called him to the office. He simply said: "If anyone, including me, asks if you are gay? You just say no and nothing else." He did know that, but it really reminded him how much risk he was taking.
I met a fellow who'd spend 6 months in an Arabic country (Saudi Arabia iirc) and earn 4x the money he'd get here in Canada. Then he had a 6 month vacation! He'd done this for several years, his boyfriend was fine with it.
He was a nurse. He said one day after 3-4 years there, the top hospital director called him to the office. He simply said: "If anyone, including me, asks if you are gay? You just say no and nothing else." He did know that, but it really reminded him how much risk he was taking.