I've been really trying to push my cousin (still a teen) into that. That age group is so caught up in living out everything virtually I almost have to push him to the mindset that a man is to be out building up themselves or things in one way or another, pretty much for their entire life.

Yeah I ramble here too much (mostly during office type work time) and I can address that if I need be. Games, TV, whatever sort of entertainment is fine for the most part when bounded into an appropriate amount of leisure time. The ones who build their entire identity around fictional worlds really just make me sick.