Cater to gamers and the incels you believe they are, and your game will sell. You'll do great. Make a game for people you wish played games, kiss your job goodbye. They don't exist. Blame the journalists, the reddit mods, the out of touch studio heads who never owned a gaming console. The gaming community at large, more than any other group, loves to watch their haters fail. They live for a good hate bandwagon. You are in the wrong space, not them.