They are also universally used to bullying their way through any problems or consequences, or having others do it for them. Women are shielded from consequences, accountability, or even being allowed to feel bad about something from the time they gain sapience and spend the next decade+ never encountering a single situation where their inbuilt girl-bonus doesn't take care of the problem for them.

Their dad and mom, simps at school, teachers, etc. Not only are all of them selling the strong female main character thing you mentioned, all of them also fall over themselves to make sure everything goes right for the girl, even when it shouldn't. And sooner or later, at some point in their lives, maybe decades later when they approach The Wall, they end up meeting the first time this isn't the case, and it's absolutely beyond comprehension to them.

The girl in this case absolutely believed complaining on the internet would 'somehow' end up with her just being given a check for a million dollars. She broadcasts herself crying and complaining, and everyone else will do all the work behind the scenes while she waits, and poof, here's a big check. I'm so sorry you had to feel bad for a few days princess, is there anything we can do to make it up to you? She really thought that would happen. Because that's how it's always happened in the past. This is probably the first time in her life it didn't happen, so there's no wonder she just expected it to work that way here too.