Yup, big government makes everything worse. It's another way of taking power away from people.

Before government, people were thankful to other people for taking care of them when they didn't have to. This also fostered positive relationships between people.

With government, it has created a relationship where the poor feel entitled to being provided for and the ones paying for it feel that they're being robbed. Any thankfulness or gratitude goes to the government and not the people paying for it (I haven't looked it up, but I'm betting charity is led by white people).