I did miss the last part where they saved the $5k and aren't doing the wedding.
He's $30k in debt and he was contributing to their wedding fund. Meaning, his $17k was the wedding fund so without the wedding he wouldn't be in debt.
"He has a habit of going into debt to please people". That's her he's pleasing and she's trying to blame him despite the problem being her. He shouldn't need to feel like he needs to go into debt to please her but she brings that out of him by the way she acts.
She didn't though? Where did I miss that.
I did miss the last part where they saved the $5k and aren't doing the wedding.
He's $30k in debt and he was contributing to their wedding fund. Meaning, his $17k was the wedding fund so without the wedding he wouldn't be in debt.
"He has a habit of going into debt to please people". That's her he's pleasing and she's trying to blame him despite the problem being her. He shouldn't need to feel like he needs to go into debt to please her but she brings that out of him by the way she acts.