Ay, those of us with low social credit scores can't use gendered pronouns, though. Otherwise those would be good ways to stir the pot.

For those of us threading the needle, we have to call attention to things to mock them without saying "he, she, male, female" etc. Otherwise it ends up in the bin (if you make too many negative comments about feminism, etc., it also ends up in the bin).

It's why I'll oftentimes say, "Oi, pull your choker up... your Adam's apple's showing".