High school teacher. TLDR a coworker recently lost her husband. He was in his early 50s and had an "extremely aggressive cancer". Months within diagnosis, he was dead.
Caught her completely off guard, etc etc etc, nothing to do, "ultra-fast spreading cancer," "he was in perfect health before," etc etc etc.
So anyway, funeral has just concluded last week-end, and she's telling her sob stories in the teacher lounge.
I turn around and ask:
"Did he get vaccinated against Covid?"
She replies right away: "Yes, he had all his doses, plus the boosters..."
Then... I smirk. Not smile, just a tiny, tiny smile on the bottom of my right lip. In my mind, I thought "mystery solved."
So anyway, she... I don't know, she completely flips out, starts screaming, "why are you asking me this, what is your problem" typical pre-menopause hysteria, etc.
Well apparently she filed a complaint with HR against me, and now I have to meet HR to discuss "something." Union rep will be with me LOL okay.
Did I really go too far? I mean, I just asked ONE question...
Might be a perfect time to play dumb & Reverse Uno this situation.
I assume OP is a Leaf, and even worse a French one in Quebec. Which is commie Zero COVID central.
Being found out as an anti-vaxer in these parts is akin to being discovered to be a neonazi. Good chance his own union will ghost him for wrongthink.
The Reverse Uno in this case would be to pretend to be a Zero COVidiot himself. Claim to have asked the question innocently about the vax status of the deceased over concern with their possible Long COVID status and the fact that COVID is always lurking around every corner. And obviously can cause every fatal consequence known to man.
There's zero social cost to remaining a masked COVidian in 2026. In fact, if OP could pull if off, it may act as camouflage to save his ass as they won't want to single out one of their gay race communism own.