Dystopia written by a man: A nobody in the grand scheme of things struggles to get by in a tyrannical regime which is slowly but surely choking the life and spirit out of humanity.
Dystopia written by a woman: A woman who is the bestest at everything can't decide which of two (or more) hunky guys she likes more while she leads the rebellion against the regime.
Dystopia written by a man: A nobody in the grand scheme of things struggles to get by in a tyrannical regime which is slowly but surely choking the life and spirit out of humanity.
Dystopia written by a woman: A woman who is the bestest at everything can't decide which of two (or more) hunky guys she likes more while she leads the rebellion against the regime.
Your second point is basically Hunger Games in a nutshell.