Alpha males that men want to follow are different from Chads that women want to fuck. Women like losers, for the most part, that are tall, big and boyish. Men don't tend to like the same kinds of men as women.
This is why the alpha/Chad terminology can cause controversy.
If society was run by the men that women like, it would be a complete disaster. Women do not pick quality men. Remember, fathers didn't pick their daughters' husband just to oppress women, they did it to help their daughters because women pick terrible men.
This. Chad is a Lancelot, a Face (from the A Team), a Loki. Charming, deceptive, pretty. A smooth rogue. But not necessarily a king amongst men or a man amongst men. I remember there used to be a divide between a "man's man" and a "ladies man" but this got lost culturally over the decades.
Alpha males that men want to follow are different from Chads that women want to fuck. Women like losers, for the most part, that are tall, big and boyish. Men don't tend to like the same kinds of men as women.
This is why the alpha/Chad terminology can cause controversy.
If society was run by the men that women like, it would be a complete disaster. Women do not pick quality men. Remember, fathers didn't pick their daughters' husband just to oppress women, they did it to help their daughters because women pick terrible men.
This. Chad is a Lancelot, a Face (from the A Team), a Loki. Charming, deceptive, pretty. A smooth rogue. But not necessarily a king amongst men or a man amongst men. I remember there used to be a divide between a "man's man" and a "ladies man" but this got lost culturally over the decades.