I think most people will agree with this statement on what bar a woman must pass in order to be loved by her husband.
Do two things.
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Support your husband generally, aka have his back and generally encourage him rather than undermine him or tear him down
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Respect him, show him respect as a man.
That's it. If a woman does that, 99% of men will love that woman.
It's not exactly a high bar.
Forget love, women don't even pass the bar to be LIKED by men in the modern day. How crazy is that, with a bar that low for unending, soul-mate forever love, modern women are STILL some of the most unlikable and disliked creatures to have ever walked the planet.
No I'm not impossible1, but the old him before dresdonfirebomber wasn't always wrong on everything either.
I just exited a relationship with a woman who was basically financially using me to advance her personal career where she found her true satisfaction. It was short term but I couldnt imagine finding satisfaction in your career over someone who wanted to love you and have a family with you.
But that is what feminism does to women. Even men dont believe that lie that you can find satisfaction in the work you do itself. For some reason it worked on women, and now they behave like 2nd class "beta" men.
yeah, as a man i like taking care of my woman, including financially but it typically is me taking care of "us", not me taking care of her and her life separately. It took me a little while to figure it out because it was so strange
Sorry it happened to you.