I was scrolling through my posts and comments, particularly in this community and I was struck by how much toxic masculinity I displayed.

I'm always trying to do better. Me acknowledging that I want to do better doesn't excuse me or make it any more right that I have displayed problematic toxic traits, but I hope you can help me be an ally and teach me how to unlearn some of my blindspots when it comes to microagressions. I realize it's not your job or your burden to do this, but I felt I should offer that anyways.

Thank you.