Prior to AI, I had done a lot of research into the dating stats and made some pretty bleak posts on ConPro about it. Now, we have AI (Germini Pro) so I got the AI to do the heavy lifting for me this time.
The estimated number of women in the USA who are White, single, between the ages of 18-25yo, don't have children, are not overweight, do not have herpes-2, have had 0-3 previous sexual partners, consider themselves right-wing politically and don't have visible tattoos in casual clothes is 150,000. That's 150,000 in the whole country.
If you live in a city with 1m people, there's on average about 440 women living in this city who meet this standard.
On the other hand the number of single men who are aged 18-35 is about 25m.
That means in a city of 1m there's about 73,500 men you're competing against for this kind of woman, of which, there are only 440.
You need to be in the top 0.05% of men if this is what you're after.
What makes you think you're in the top 0.05% of men?
Of course your own preferences, the preferences of the women and preferences of the men you're competing against matter to a degree but something tells me even when that's factored in, you're still scraping from the bottom.
If we just compare the number of single women without kids who are aged 18-35 (16.5m vs single men (25m) you still need to be in the top 66% of all these men to even have a shot at the loweat quality woman.
Now imagine being a man with standards. If you have standards, you better be in the top 0.1% of men or you don't stand a chance.
AI's currently suck at math. Did you check these numbers are accurate? If not, why do you trust them? If so, why did you need AI?
I once calculated these numbers and came to a similar result.
I did not check the current numbers generated by the AI because of the fact that they aligned with what I once calculated.
I trust them because I know they align with what I once calculated.
I used the AI because last time I calculated these numbers it took me hours to find the data. The AI did it in 1 minute. Also, I find people trust AI more than they trust my numbers because most people don't understand how to verify if my numbers were correct but they're more inclined to trust an AI who they know is programmed to know how to calculate these things to provide somewhat accurate (rough) results.