The wildest part of the whole Chosen People narrative is that other people are also expected to believe it, and often do. It's not that unusual for a peoples' religion to proclaim themselves the chosen people. It's wild for others not in that group to bully and try to destroy you for not thinking the outgroup are God's Chosen.

I have no problem with the Jews thinking they're Chosen and special. Go wild. But I don't have to believe it, and I'm not an antisemite for going 'no, I don't think that's how this works.'

I'm not hateful for not thinking I'm cattle in the eyes of God, before the Chosen People. We're not doing that.