Now hang on, let's go back a second. Gay sex and anal are not the same thing. Yes, straight people have anal sex, and this goes back thousands of years. Now, obviously, casual sex wasn't as common as it is today, so it is effectively rare in those times; but it was also rare to use your lounge in kissing prior to the 20th century.
Yes, your complaints about porn are valid. In fact, they are so valid that even most porn stars and pornographers will literally tell you, to your face, never to just replicate what you see in porn in the bedroom.
Now hang on, let's go back a second. Gay sex and anal are not the same thing. Yes, straight people have anal sex, and this goes back thousands of years. Now, obviously, casual sex wasn't as common as it is today, so it is effectively rare in those times; but it was also rare to use your lounge in kissing prior to the 20th century.
Yes, your complaints about porn are valid. In fact, they are so valid that even most porn stars and pornographers will literally tell you, to your face, never to just replicate what you see in porn in the bedroom.