There was a problem with a door, it wasn't latching properly. The latch was at the top and neither of them could figure it out nor reach it.
One of them is Moroccan, the other is some western coal burning mystery meat.
The Moroccan asked me to fix the door. Which I did in about 10 second after using my hands to understand the latch mechanism and manipulating it blindly (I can't see over the top of the door).
Afterwards the Moroccan lady says
this is why we need a man.
The coalburner immediately responded.
No we don't, I could have done that don't get full of yourself.
Two breed of female, one that appreciates the need for a man's help, the other that makes every effort to tear a man down where she sees an opportunity.
Which way western man?
"Coulda but didn'na, which is why you needed me."
Next time things like that happen, look right at the appreciative one, and only that one, and say "Thank you, it's nice to be appreciated."
Last time a similar thing happened to me at work, the other one said "We didn't need you."
"And I didn't need attitude instead of gratitude, but here we are."