That stuff is way overstated.
You can get out of vaccine your kids. Just refuse them. It makes certain things harder like public school but there are plenty of homeschool pods to join that don't require it and most offer some kind of in person thing. Move to a small town where it costs less and yeah maybe you earn less. Having kids is easy. Living in your metropolitan area with walkable Starbucks and sushi delis whole also having kids, is harder. Really, when people say it's hard, it's because they insist on being normies doing normie things living normie lives even at the expense of having kids. They've clearly prioritized malls and shops and gyms and proximity to an IKEA over starting a family.
That stuff is way overstated. You can get out of vaccine your kids. Just refuse them. It makes certain things harder like public school but there are plenty of homeschool pods to join that don't require it and most offer some kind of in person thing. Move to a small town where it costs less and yeah maybe you earn less. Having kids is easy. Living in your metropolitan area with walkable Starbucks and sushi delis whole also having kids, is harder. Really, when people say it's hard, it's because they insist on being normies doing normie things living normie lives even at the expense of having kids. They've clearly prioritized malls and shops and gyms and proximity to an IKEA over starting a family.