Back in the heyday of bodybuilding.com's misc, someone made a plenty of fish profile with a ~250 pound woman who had photoshopped stubble and a pig nose. They also said the woman had a penis looking growth on her leg. The miscer then posted screen shots of the replies from would be suitors flowing in. Most were obviously mentally deficient, but quite a few were normal looking dudes. I think dating apps have massively skewed an already out of balance dynamic between men and women leading to women mistaking a guy who wants to have casual sex for their actual dating market. Men who don't check certain boxes favored on the apps become disillusioned over the whole process and opt out.