The most hilarious thing to me as one of those 20%, is that this paradigm is so shit I've literally been celibate by choice for the past decade, while I dedicate myself to purging this insanity from society, so people actually recognize that there's a lot more to it than just picking sexy pictures on your phone.

Relationships aren't about sex for men. For men, relationships are largely about loyalty, as they're seeking to form a family which can hold together against the relentless waves of entropy rocking society. Basically, the entire concept of dating apps is antagonistic to men's romantic ideals, so of course they only find the worst of the worst there.