Seriously, pay for it.

I am not joking. Paying a professional is a much less risky way to get your rocks off. Professionals that run off to the police don't get repeat business. There are websites that give reviews to ladies of negotiable affection in places it is legal.

In any state or territory where there are "Yes means yes" or "affirmative consent laws" the onus is on the man to prove that they had consent at every stage, and that consent was never withdrawn. It reverses the presumption of innocence.

Casual sex is just not worth it. Either go on an overseas trip (and be careful about where) or just save yourself until marriage.