This is why feminism took over everything public facing. Every woman, no matter how garbage her character or shitty the circumstances, can count on dozens of other women around her to back her up over a man in the same position.
I would act more sympathetic for a guy in the same situation too, not that I would particularly respect him, but because it's the rules of the game and I'm not a shitty primadonna teammate bitching that the rest of the team aren't meeting my standards and walking off the field.
Tribalism works, evolutionarily it stood the test of time and I'm sick of being on teams where no-one wants to fucking win.
This is why feminism took over everything public facing. Every woman, no matter how garbage her character or shitty the circumstances, can count on dozens of other women around her to back her up over a man in the same position.
I would act more sympathetic for a guy in the same situation too, not that I would particularly respect him, but because it's the rules of the game and I'm not a shitty primadonna teammate bitching that the rest of the team aren't meeting my standards and walking off the field.
Tribalism works, evolutionarily it stood the test of time and I'm sick of being on teams where no-one wants to fucking win.