Notice, btw, that women don’t care if you’re loyal or nice to them.

Having a nasty and disloyal piece of shit husband or boyfriend is good. It makes it all the more easy to convince people, courts, media, and authorities that they were abused and are thus entitled to at least half his resources, media presence, books deals, and likes on social media. Otherwise, they have to lie, which is a headache for them to do, and there's a small chance they might get caught.