No child deserves racial epithets thrown at them, that's stupid.

They are children. You correct their behavior with discipline, you don't act like a retarded older child. Real life isn't Xbox Live.

If you give money to someone who is fully unapologetic about using racial slurs against children, you support her actions. You support her actions more than someone who agrees with what she did, and gave nothing. Material support outweighs notional support.