If women are incapable of keeping themselves in check, men clearly share some of the blame for letting themselves be manipulated into letting women get so out of control in the first place.

The issue with that is we're so many decades/centuries off that the men you could blame are long gone. Modern men have modern women to deal with, a trillion dollar propaganda campaign to break them, and if that's not enough, the most powerful and massive governments the world has ever seen.

Our generation of men has never known what keeping women in check even means. Most couldn't even conceptualize it out of fear of being called a mushogynist.