I'll jump back in too. Her language gives off female abuser vibes. Its the same attitude a woman has after attacking her "partner" then calling the cops after she falls over in the scuffle. Remember nearly 70% of non-reciprocal domestic violence is committed by women and while it might be tempting to call the victims of such a situation namby pamby nancey boys, there is fuck all you can do in such a situation. Leave, but that don't work if you have kids with the women.