age doesn't matter until it does
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That is more because of social taboos. We have a large number of older millennial women who are expected to be permanently single now (over 40% by 2030). That and we have a large number of young men who are completely sexless (30-60 percent). We are pushing hard against age gap relationships to try to force ideas of equal equity…especially younger incels or older women who are trying to convince younger women to not date older men via brainwashing.
Which is why older women dating younger men is not taboo, but older men dating younger women is.
And tons of young women want and are sexually attracted to older men. Women are far more perverted and into shit you think they are not. A lot of there romance novels contain male protagonists who are hairy and ugly because they consider it hot (ex: breeding with Bigfoot).
I mean, if you think there is not a large number of women with daddy issues who go gaga for older men, you have no experience with women at all. Women are not some group of hyper-intelligent perfect beings, they are stupid humans who do stupid things. Men keep trying to frame women as they perfect beings so they can pretend women’s judgements = men’s value.
Older men can and should still chase what they want exclusively. Do not settle because you get nothing for it.
And women mostly do only go for how much utility a man provides, you can turn a woman on via cold hard cash and they are turned on by male sacrifice. Mentally ill and low value women go for deadbeats and thugs. The type that ends up as single mothers and poor.
Just because they are currently young does not mean they are high value, it means they are just breedable.
Women are animals and nowhere near as intelligent as you think. They are just as dumb as the average dude and below. They are not even hotter, men just want to breed with them instinctively. They are not doing some autistic analysis of a man’s age, income, looks, etc and there is no standard for what they truly do. The closest you can get is what the culture is pushing for or forcing to happen.
If the culture decided age gap relationships were the shit, the gap between people in relationships would dramatically increase. When you consider the direction the economy is headed, we very well could become a culture where you have hot young people marrying older people who have houses and the like in the future.
Women follow trends of what they should do and who they should date (ex: preselection) and tend to make stupid choices that often go against everything you could research about them.
No it would not be easy as there is no accurate way to measure that. Plus it is a poor methodology because what people say they want is not what they actually want, online dating is skewed because only a small number of women use those sites, women are not honest about what they are okay with and online dating is heavily skewed for looks only.
Ex: Most women will say they require men to be six feet tall, but they gladly date men who are 5 foot 10 without batting an eye if they are fit and have game. Most women who are open to date older men, broke bad boys, etc are not going to say it because women are not direct communicators or logical. It will “just happen” out of nowhere and they will pretend it is some accident.
Women will even say they only want to date men who is confident and rich…but then you will find out they hid that they were sleeping with some ugly need in the past or some broke thug.
You just confirmed my theory that you have very little to no experience with real women. You are overthinking it all and are using the terminally online strategy of hyperfocusing on weak science in a field that has shown that over 80% of studies ever done fail the repeatability test.
Really, you need to get outside dude. Women are not alien, they are not logical, they are not special.
They are just irrational animals that focus on feeling good above all else. Make them feel good and they will fuck you. Make them feel gross and they will be creeped out. And it all irrational and in her head.
They will get raped as a kid and then feel creeped out by a dude minding his own business in the gym. They will let a crush fuck them and then wake up regretting it tomorrow…so now it is rape to her. They will call the cops on a dude says hi to her when she is in a bad mood.
It is why they are so hypocritical and seem complicated. But they are not complicated, men just make it so. Men especially love shooting themselves in the foot by spoiling women or improving them too much. It makes it harder to get a woman to feel anything, constantly raising the bar for what men have to do.
You cannot use science to understand woman because they are not logical. You have to use common sense instead, something most young men lack.
No, it is like trying to run your entire gaming business using only marketing research and studies. You will end up getting shocked as your game flops despite all the data and science saying your game is perfect. Then you will be shocked a game like Elden Ring, one that goes against all the marketing research and studies out there on how a game should be designed, is as successful as it is.
You have an issue of being online too much and overthinking it all.
When it comes to psychology, 80% of studies posted in scientific journals fail to be replicated. The issue is you are assuming this “science” is more reputable to just random opinions online when it is just as valuable.
Science is not some gospel or truth. It is just an experiment and the results of said experiment. If the experiment is weak or biased, the results are pretty meaningless.
With much changing over the years.
Like when eggs were good for you, then bad, now good again. Like how Pluto use to be a planet. Or how much psychology has changed in general.
Most studies are not to be taken as fact just because they exist, especially ones that use surveys or statistics. Some are strong enough to become scientific theories, but that is not true in psychology.
It seems most people just lack street smarts and think book smarts actually matters outside of the internet or a university.