As always, points for using "begging the question" in the original correct style.

But yeah, massively disingenuous from her, no surprise. No one is using that as a "reason to rape," they're using women's obsession with being raped as a justification for calling out the hypocritical outrage about rape fantasy that appeals to men, and the feminist outrage surrounding that.

If women can fantasize about being raped, men can fantasize about rape. Neither is leading to real world rape. Fictional rape =/= rape.