Raise the value and power from what they assume to be a male POV. They want to compete on male values without being able to compete with males. They want power over males, but this has to be the same power that males wield over other males (direct and physical), also without being able to do so inherently.

Everything that feminism does is an attempt to destroy everything inherently female in every woman.

Women have always had power and value. The point of feminism wasn't to raise existing levels of both, it was to transform the power and value functions into a male paradigm. Which is why modern women have become by and large much more worthless.

Women don't need a girlfriend for a mate and men don't need a a gay fuck-buddy for a mate.