So the answer to "What should men get from the current societal arrangement," is
Nothing. And even wondering how that helps you as a man makes you less of a man. Women want Mario Brothers. They want dudes doing everything including murdering things only for them to show up at the castle and get told, "Sorry Mario the real princess is in another castle."
So the answer to "What should men get from the current societal arrangement," is
Nothing. And even wondering how that helps you as a man makes you less of a man. Women want Mario Brothers. They want dudes doing everything including murdering things only for them to show up at the castle and get told, "Sorry Mario the real princess is in another castle."