Because then you get lectured about how you need to "man up", "lift" and "touch grass" in order to be a "real man" and "wife up" one of the women on Tinder, Hinge or Bumble otherwise you're a "misogynistic" "incel" "anti-social loser" who lives in their "mothers basement".

Sounds infinitely preferable than allowing these gutter sluts to ruin your life. Keep in mind that misery loves company, and the losers doing the lecturing are footing the bill for some whore who's fucking Tyrone on the side. They just want to feel better about the poor decisions that they're trying to shame other men into.