It's ridiculously contradictory too, going by your description of western dating and from my personal experience. As you know western status quo has been promoting hedonism and sexual liberation, every real life women in similar age I came across were so promiscuous. As someone that prefer to be old school, I didn't like what I was seeing, whorish women acting masculine swearing like sailors and tattoos all over the body. That was when I voluntarily gave up pursuing and even then tradcucks sat on their laurels doing nothing.