I don't doubt you've had personal experiences which you've turned into a historical dialectic, in fact I'm confident that's exactly what the problem is. In fact, I'm sure you think in the exact same terms as the people you're complaining about. I've literally heard this same argument from black racialist intellectuals explaining why white people are thieving, genocidal, school-shooting, psychopaths; and that there can't be any interaction with such a savage race.

But again, it's the exploitation of your personal experiences, politicized into a movement which justifies violence and regulation.