People don't like it because their opposition to cancel culture wasn't only because it was other people doing it to them. People had a problem with it because fighting with our own friends and families is pants-on-head retarded, when the main threat we're facing right now is foreign adversaries who stoke these fires specifically because we can't do anything serious to oppose them when we're wrapped up in in-fighting.

Nobody blames you for having strong feelings. People blame you when you fly off half-cocked and lash out without even recognizing the lay of the land. People are pissed off with you because you're losing the mental game.